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Alan Hoffman

Alan Hoffman, LMFT

Therapist in Washington

Practical, goal-focused therapy for everyday strain

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About Alan

Alan Hoffman is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) with 25 years of clinical experience. He aims to make first conversations calm and human so people can say what feels hard to bring up. Many come in feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure how to move forward, and he focuses on clear, practical steps to help.

He uses straightforward, goal-focused work that emphasizes skills people can practice between sessions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method are part of his regular approach because they offer concrete tools and homework to build new habits. He also draws on Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, and Solution-Focused Therapy when they fit the problem.

Alan helps people address stress, anxiety, relationship strain, parenting concerns, low self-esteem, and depression. He also offers support around adoption and foster care, blended family issues, communication problems, addiction concerns, and life transitions. His work often targets patterns that come from family of origin issues, guilt, isolation, or questions about life purpose.

His style is conversational and practical. Sessions typically end with specific suggestions - short readings, short exercises, or small tasks - to try before the next meeting. He aims to keep therapy focused so that people see usable change without long, unfocused talk.

Alan brings personal experience as a spouse, parent, U.S. Army veteran, and recreational sailor into his perspective. Those life roles inform how he listens and what he suggests, alongside his training in marriage and family therapy.

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How Alan’s Approaches Translate to Online Work

CBT focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing different behaviors to change how people feel. It is useful for tackling anxiety, depression, and stress with practical exercises and short homework tasks. The Gottman Method centers on improving how partners communicate and solve problems, using structured conversations and specific skills to reduce conflict and rebuild connection.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Alan will talk with each person about their goals, preferences, and what has or has not helped before. He treats the choice of method as collaborative and will adjust strategies based on how a client responds over time.

If you prefer online options, confirm the current session formats before booking so you know what is offered. Online work can make fitting sessions into a busy week easier, allow for shorter check-ins when needed, and let people use practices between meetings without extra travel. The focus remains on concrete tools and real-life steps you can try between sessions to make steady progress.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does he help with?

He works with people facing stress, anxiety, relationship strain, parenting challenges, low self-esteem, and depression. He also supports concerns like adoption and foster care, addiction, and life transitions.

What is his therapy style like?

His approach is practical and goal-oriented, with conversational sessions that end with simple suggestions to try between meetings. He favors short-term, solution-focused work when appropriate.

How much experience does he have?

He has 25 years of clinical experience working with individuals and families. That experience informs a pragmatic, skills-based way of working.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He holds the LMFT credential, listed as WA LMFT, and is located in Washington.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can he work with international clients?

He is not currently accepting international clients.

How are sessions priced and billed?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability to set up an initial session.

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