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Matthew Esselstrom

Matthew Esselstrom, LMFT

Therapist in California

Compassionate therapist focused on practical change

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  • 22 years experience
  • CA LMFT
  • Works with depression

About Matthew

Matthew Esselstrom is a California-licensed marriage and family therapist with 22 years of clinical experience. Matthew helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship strain, and motivation challenges. He emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and compassion in his work. Seeking change can feel hard, and he aims to support people as they take those first steps.

In sessions Matthew listens first and adapts the conversation to each person's needs. He works with people facing anger management, addiction concerns, grief, trauma, and intimacy-related issues. He also supports those coping with career pressures, sleep or eating problems, and life transitions.

Matthew draws on evidence-based therapeutic techniques to address both mood and behavioral concerns. He helps clients understand patterns that keep them stuck and practices ways to try something different in day-to-day life. Goals are set together so progress is practical and measurable.

People come for help with a wide range of concerns, including ADHD, bipolar mood issues, parenting stress, and compassion fatigue. Matthew also addresses topics such as attachment difficulties, abandonment, and blended family adjustments. His approach is collaborative and straightforward.

He tailors each treatment plan to the individual rather than using one method for everyone. Sessions focus on what the person needs right now and on steps they can take between meetings. Matthew supports change at a pace that feels manageable for the client.

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How Matthew Uses Evidence-Based Techniques Online

Matthew uses widely studied, evidence-based therapeutic techniques to help people change patterns and manage symptoms. One common approach focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them against reality to shift mood and behavior; this helps with anxiety, depression, and low motivation. Another approach emphasizes learning new coping skills and behavioral experiments to reduce avoidance and build confidence in everyday situations.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Matthew talks with each person about their needs, goals, and preferences and then suggests techniques that fit. Decisions about methods and pacing are collaborative and adjusted as progress is made.

If you are considering online therapy, confirm current session options before booking since formats were not specified in the biography. Online work can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy life, reduce travel time, and allow for shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. Many people find that remote sessions help maintain continuity of care during life transitions and make it simpler to keep regular appointments.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Matthew work with?

He helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship issues, anger, self-esteem, addictions, trauma and grief among other concerns.

How would you describe his therapeutic style?

His style is respectful and compassionate, with an emphasis on listening and tailoring conversation to each person's needs.

What is his experience working as a therapist?

He has 22 years of professional experience providing mental health support and developing individualized treatment plans.

Where is he licensed and practicing?

He is a licensed marriage and family therapist in California and practices under the CA LMFT credential.

Which languages are sessions offered in?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can I work with him from another country?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions scheduled and what do they cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin therapy with him?

Select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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