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Michael Southerland

Michael Southerland, LMFT

Therapist in California

Compassionate, strengths-based therapy for everyday life

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  • Strengths focused
  • Practical tools
  • Collaborative process

About Michael

Michael Southerland is a licensed marriage and family therapist working in California. He helps people who are coping with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship concerns, intimacy-related issues, and LGBT-related challenges. He frames therapy as a collaborative process and supports clients who want clearer direction and more satisfying connections in life.

He believes each person is the expert on their own story and brings strengths to the work. Sessions focus on building on those strengths while identifying small, practical steps that reduce anxiety and lift mood. Michael aims to make the first steps feel doable rather than overwhelming.

With 12 years of clinical experience, he draws on several practical approaches. He uses Client-Centered methods to follow the client’s lead and create space for honest reflection. He also applies Cognitive Behavioral Therapy tools to help people test unhelpful thoughts and try new behaviors.

His practice also incorporates Narrative and Solution-Focused ideas to help people reframe difficult experiences and set short-term goals. Therapy conversations are oriented toward everyday changes that improve relationships and emotional balance. Michael emphasizes collaboration and clear, actionable strategies.

People looking to begin can expect straightforward conversation and concrete tasks between meetings when useful. He works in English and is licensed in California as an LMFT. Prospective clients are encouraged to use the site’s matching process to schedule a first session and see if his style feels like a good fit.

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Approaches that shape online sessions

Michael draws on Client-Centered Therapy to follow each person’s pace and priorities, creating space for honest reflection and listening without taking over the agenda. This approach helps when someone needs to feel heard and start from their own goals.

He also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions. CBT offers clear exercises for testing anxious or negative thoughts and trying small behavior changes that can improve mood and relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He will collaborate with each client to decide which methods to emphasize based on goals, practical needs, and what feels most helpful in early sessions. That choice can change as progress unfolds.

Confirm current session options before booking so you know what formats are offered. Online therapy can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when schedules are tight. Some formats also require less bandwidth or let people choose whether to use video, which can make it simpler to maintain regular sessions and follow through on goals.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Michael commonly address?

He works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and intimacy concerns, and LGBT-related issues, plus related topics such as attachment, body image, and substance-related difficulties.

What is his general therapy style?

He uses a collaborative, person-centered style that emphasizes the client’s strengths and practical steps to reduce symptoms and improve relationships.

What background does he bring to sessions?

He has 12 years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and relationship concerns in clinical settings.

What credentials and location are listed?

He is a licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - licensed in California.

Which languages are offered for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Are international clients supported?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that you can cancel at any time.

How do I begin a session with him?

Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist’s availability.

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